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Hi there, I’m Bobby Sneed
I am the author of the book, “Marriage, It’s In Your Hands! 
I’ve never really considered myself to be a writer, I just knew I wanted to help people avoid the frustration, pain, and embarrassment of divorce by inspiring and empowering them to have healthy vitalized marriages. 

So, I wrote a book that will empower married couples to effectively communicate, cooperate and interact with each other.
The # 1 Reason Why I wrote 
"Marriage It's In Your Hands" 
was to help people avoid the frustration, pain, and embarrassment of divorce 
by inspiring and empowering them to have healthy vitalized marriages. 

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My Story...
The fact that I should be telling people how they can have a successful marriage as a divorced man sounds kind of presumptuous to me, but I am going to do it anyway because the reality is our marriage could have turned out differently had we read and applied the practical information from a book similar to “Marriage It’s In Your Hands” to help us navigate through the unforeseen challenges that every married couple will face.

But unfortunately, that book did not exist, or we simply couldn’t find it. I knew we weren’t alone and there had to be other married couples facing the same inevitable challenges in their marriages that we faced in the areas of communication, monogamy, sexual expectations, conflict resolution, forgiveness, anger, finances, pride and petty behavior. 

 I believe that married couples that know how to effectively communicate, interact and cooperate with each other and who execute all three of these marital principles consistently will experience long-term marital happiness.

According to a recent study, every 13 seconds, there is one divorce in America. 

That's nearly 6,000 divorces per day. 

When I was a junior in college, I met a young lady at church in Austin, Texas and we started dating shortly after. 

Once I graduated from college we decided to get married. After two years of marriage, it flamed out and we were divorced.

The pain of my divorce was my motivation to help other couples avoid divorce from happening to them.

So, with the help of the Holy Spirit I wrote a book about marriage that teaches couples how to live a married life that reflects the values, principles, and truths of the Bible.

Now your marriage doesn't have to end in divorce like my first marriage did.

I believe if more married couples had the opportunity to learn from the negative experiences of other married couples, they would have more insight knowledge available to help save their own marriages from certain disaster.

What makes "Marriage It's In Your Hands" so unique and effective is that it was divinely written from biblical research. The Bible is very practical. There are powerful life-changing principles pertaining to marriage throughout the Bible that if applied, will produce massive results in your marriage. There is more evidence for the Bible’s authenticity than for any literature of antiquity. You can trust this marriage book will help you to achieve a healthy, exciting, prosperous marriage because the foundation from which it was derived is from a trustworthy source.

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Bobby, your book, Marriage It’s in your hands is awesome. I truly love the fact that it is biblically-based. As a wife, I feel it has been very helpful in guiding me in the right direction. The fact that you have laid out the honest truth in such a wonderful book is great. I would recommend your book to anyone, especially the unmarried people, who are truly wanting a marriage designed by God. Thank you for your hard work, and I look forward to being able to read more of your materials in the future. Thank God for you and the anointing that he has on your life to be able to do his work and in such a wonderful way.
 – Avaire Patterson Kemuel  
you are experiencing frustration, regret, hurt or disappointment in your marriage, trust me there is hope for you and your spouse. You are exactly where we were, feeling hopeless, searching for answers, hoping we could find someone who would understand how we felt and what we were experiencing as a married couple. 

We needed practical ways to live a married life that reflected the values, principles, and truths of the Bible. That's what makes “Marriage It’s In Your Hands,” so unique because it's loaded with practical marital applications that are communicated with inspiration. In short, my goal for writing this book was for couples to experience life change in their marriages.

As I stated previously, I’ve never really considered myself to be writer, I just knew I wanted to help people avoid the frustration, pain, and embarrassment of divorce by inspiring and empowering them to have a healthy vitalized marriages. So, I wrote a book that teaches couples how to live a married life that reflects the values, principles, and truths of the Bible. I believe that the practical biblical solutions in this book will empower married couples to effectively communicate, cooperate and interact with each other.
Marriage, It’s In Your Hands is a step by step guide that will help any man to become a great husband.
Every man who is planning on getting married or who is already married needs to read this book! To start all I can say is wow!!! I was going through a rough patch with the mother of our child a few months back. We had been together for 4 years and I was pushing her away with my unacceptable behavior. I was approached by the author Bobby at church and he mentioned to me about reading his book. He knew I was having problems at home and he assured me that everything I need to know about having a great relationship was in his book.

So I started reading "Marriage It's In Your Hands" and it immediately opened my eyes to what I really did not know about relationships. The book is absolutely amazing and it's easy to read which makes it very easy to comprehend. He uses personal experiences as well as other researched material to make the reader fully understand how relationships work. My life has been in a positive outcome ever since I read his book and my lady appreciates what it has done for us as well. This book will blow you away with the break down of the different characteristics of men/women mindset and why things happen the way they do.

You can tell the author goes above and beyond with the material he put into this book. Although this book is a spiritual book it can be enjoyed by anyone no matter their beliefs. I will recommend this book to anyone interested in getting control of their life, mind, love, and family.
– Branston Cyphers
6 Common Things 
Most Married Men Struggle With...
  • How do I become a husband to my wife knowing that marriage won't automatically make me function like a husband to her?
  • How can I learn to put my pride aside and love my wife not based on how she treats me or without judging her?
  • How do I stop watching porn and masturbating to it?
  •  I’m really committed to having a great marriage, but my wife and I criticize and nag each other constantly and this makes it difficult to communicate with each other. We need help — what do we do?
  •  How do I stop making the same mistakes and repeating my old unhealthy patterns? I’ve been married twice and I don’t want to be divorced a third time. I’m ready to create long-term change.
  •  How do I forgive [insert name here] and restore the love and respect in my marriage? I want to reestablish trust after an emotional or physical betrayal. How do I do that?
Marriage its in your hands is a MUST READ!! This book is for men, women, singles as well as engaged and married couples. Anyone can literally get something out of this book. I like to consider it the "Personal Development book" because it truly covers practically every topic you could imagine. It gives you a better understanding of God's view of marriage and how to properly prepare and challenge yourself to be a better partner to your spouse or future spouse. It definitely challenged me to take a look at myself and my motives to become the person who I am supposed to be when I am ready to marry. Thank you, Bobby Sneed! The book was life-changing!! :)
– Jennifer Henderson
Here is what you can expect from reading this book. 
Marriage, It’s In Your Hands helps couples...
  •  Create a safe place in their marriage where they feel appreciated, understood, and affirmed allowing the manifestation of healthy collaboration with each other - pg. 192
  • Discover their strengths and identify growth areas - pg. 128
  • Learn practical relationship skills to apply to current and future challenges in the relationship -pg. 84
  • Earn more money for spending - pg. 172
  • Become great parents - pg.169
  • Find out why men cheat so you can avoid it - pg. 235
  • Find out why women cheat so you can avoid it - pg. 236
  • Learn how to become a better listener - pg. 191
  • Overcome petty behavior and immature selfishness, allowing them to enjoy the oneness of marriage - pg. 178
  • Develop a mission statement for your marriage - pg. 129
  • Reestablish trust after an emotional or physical betrayal -pg. 113
  • Explore factors that lead to relationship longevity -pg. 94
  • Strengthen their communication and conflict resolution skills -pg. 186
  • Comfortably discuss financial issues -pg. 184
  • Establish personal, mutual, and family goals -pg. 179
  • Build a more intimate and long-lasting, successful relationship or marriage - pg. 1
  • Find out what pornography does to your brain, how it will eventually destroy your marriage and what you can do to overcome it - pg. 222
  • As a man, you will discover what the biblical definition of a husband is and how to become one -pg. 7
  • As a woman, you will discover what the biblical definition of a wife is and how to become one -pg. 253
  • Find out the 8 marriage systems you must implement in your marriage to make it successful -pg. 166
  • The five steps to relational Win-Win outcomes - pg. 194
  • The formula for a successful marriage - pg. 97
  • Find out why couples that pray together stay together - pg.195
  •  Will this book empower a man to become a husband to his bride, not just be married to her?
  • Is this book any different from other marriage books?
  • Will this book empower a woman to become a wife, not just be a married woman?
  • Will this book prepare me for marriage if I am single and desire to be married?
  • Will this book prepare me for marriage if I am currently divorced and desire to get married again?
  • Can you guarantee this book will enrich my life and marriage?
The answer to all these questions is absolutely YES! 
Let’s be honest: No matter if you are single, engaged, married or divorced, we all have these same questions and could use more guidance. A great marriage is worthwhile if you learn who you need to become to have a great marriage. The last couple years you’ve been doing it right or you have been doing it wrong. 

Proper preparation prevents poor performance in relationships. As I teach these biblical principles to men and women who are single, engaged, married and divorced, I’ve discovered that reading the right book at the right time is a powerful experience.
If these questions resonate with you, then congratulations, you’re on the right path!

All the guidance, support, and direction you’re seeking is right here. I have supported many people seeking guidance in marriage and relational care. I was always taught to seek counsel, not opinions and then pass it on. All I desire is to pass on what has been passed on to me. After reading Marriage It’s In Your Hands, you will have access to specialized knowledge and expertise experiencing firsthand my unique and effective method of combining spiritual principles with practical tools and relevant applicable wisdom empowering you to know with confidence an outstanding marriage can be your reality.
With one the click of a button you will have access to a book that can change everything for you and your marriage.
We continually learn and educate ourselves about all things except the most important relationship in our lives outside our relationship with God. Why? Success must be on purpose and our marriages are no different! This book will help you become successful in your marriage.
 – Onome Ufomata
  • Order "Marriage It's In Your Hands" from today.
  • Promise yourself you will readjust your schedule to read the entire book in 7 days or less. No EXCUSES! Make the commitment if not for yourself for your spouse.
  • Consistently apply what you've read to your marriage.
  • Experience marital success and happiness.
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We need the negative to alarm us. Imagine driving down a country road. Up ahead, the bridge is out, but there are no signs to warn you. Someone who's already been down the road has had a colossal wreck. He is limping back up the road as you're speeding along. He flags you down, and he advises you not to go down this road any further because the bridge is out. Would you be wise to say, "I'm not into that negative stuff. Mind your own business!" and head down the road? No! Once you've taken a look at this guy, and it appears that he's been in a wreck, the wise response would be, "Hey, I'd better take it easy. I'd better not go down this road. Somebody's been down this road, and he had a disaster. I'm going to take his advice and change my direction.”
Marriage It's in your hands is an extraordinary global look at preparation for marriage as an individual, with a significant other and provides tools to use for those already married. The discussion about relationship dynamics really had me considering how much of my interactions are Win-Win at home with my spouse. There are challenges for both women and men to grow into a Godly spouse before ever committing to a marriage. Mr. Sneed's transparency about his own struggles with the "weeds" that destroy marriage makes him vulnerable yet trustworthy because the reader can be confident he knows and has lived his content. Mr. Sneed has produced a contemporary marriage handbook for the modern Christian single, notably written by a layperson, a school mate, and a personal friend. May God continue to inspire him as he impacts his generation regarding Christian marriage.
– Marinette Martin.
I highly recommend this book to anyone that is married, single, or in a relationship!!!! "Marriage It's In Your Hands" clearly explains God's meaning of biblical marriage and why that should be our ultimate goal as a married couple. This book helps you discover personal weak areas that you probably did not know existed and how it can lead to the destruction of your marriage. The author did such an amazing job in helping us put it all into perspective. 
 – Elizabeth Rodriguez
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This book will empower men and women to live a married life that reflects the values, principles, and truths of the Bible.
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I’m grateful you’re here and our paths crossed. I believe that our paths crossed for a reason. I don’t necessarily know why, but I definitely do not think it was by luck or chance. I pray my book blesses your relationship with God and your marriage in a unique and extraordinary way. I’m praying for you and I love you. 

Wishing you massive success and happiness,

Bobby L. Sneed Jr.

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Bobby is among the most polished, professional speakers on the topic of personal development and male-female relationships, with a message everyone should hear. Based on scientific and biblical research, Bobby Sneed will not only speak to your mind, his words will speak to your heart.

When Bobby Sneed takes the stage or grabs a microphone, he is passionate about helping people:
  • Develop personal faith as an advantage to access their hidden potential
  •  Overcome fear, doubt and disbelief to pursue new endeavors
  • Learn and understand the fundamentals of human behavior that most affect personal and business performance
  • Learn how to strengthen their marriages and live a married life that reflects the values, principles, and truths of the Bible

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