The fact that he should be telling people how they can have a successful marriage as a divorced man sounds kind of presumptuous to him. Still, he has decided to do it anyway because the reality is their marriage could have turned out differently had they read and applied the practical information from a book similar to Marriage It’s In Your Hands to help them navigate through the unforeseen challenges that every married couple will face.
But unfortunately, that book did not exist, or they couldn’t find it. Bobby knew they weren’t alone, and there had to be other married couples facing the same inevitable challenges in their marriages that they experienced in the areas of communication, monogamy, sexual expectations, conflict resolution, forgiveness, anger, finances, pride, and petty behavior.
Bobby believes that married couples that know how to communicate, interact, and cooperate effectively and who execute all three of these marital principles consistently will experience long-term marital happiness.